You just got a first date with a girl named Jessica. You go champ! Make sure to steer clear of these 5 topics, or this may be your last date too!

Topic 1: Ex Girlfriend’s

Sure you may have just broken up with your ex last week, but your new date doesn’t want to know about it! Ex’s are ex’s for a reason, and should never be discussed on a first date. Bringing up your ex will make Jessica suspect you may still have feelings her her. Not only that, bad mouthing your ex will make you seem like a jerk. There really is no positive aspect about bringing up an ex on a first date, so don’t do it.

Topic 2: Sex

There is a time and place for everything, and that includes the topic of sex. It’s a good idea to leave the topic of sex out of the first date conversation, as in asking a girl the craziest place she’s ever “got down,” how many guys she’s been with, etc. Many girls are turned off by guys who come on too strong on the first date. The only caveat to this rule is if she brings it up first. But even then, tread lightly.

Topic 3: How Long It’s Been Since You Were With Someone

If you haven’t been on a date in 10 years, it does not make sense to tell Jessica this information. It sends clear signals to her that you have been “unwanted” for quite some time, which subconsciously may lower her attraction towards you. What have you been doing those 10 years? If she happens to ask you, just say something like “it’s been a little while,” without giving an actual timeline. Dodge the question if you can. People like others who are wanted. It’s both the “bandwagon effect”, and “social proof.” If other people want you, there must be something good about you!

Topic 4: Marriage/Kids

Again, you are taking things very slow on the first date. If you start bringing up marriage, kids, and a white picket fence on the first date, “clinger” signals may start flashing in Jessica’s mind. Even if you want to get married or have kids in the future, don’t bring it up on the first date. Information like this is better brought up when you have been on many dates with a girl. Bringing it up on the first date makes you appear quite thirsty.

Topic 5: Gifts

While it’s not really a topic, I wanted to bring it up as a lot of guys make this mistake. You should not be buying a girl gifts on the first date. This includes flowers, braclets, purses, etc. You should not be buying this girl anything, except for paying the tab at the end of the date. When you show up to the first date with a $40 bouquet of flowers, you are putting this girl on a very high pedestal. Not only that, you are actually lowering her interest level in you, as you appear “needy.” Being “needy” too early is a cardinal sin with women, and pushes them away very quickly. So no gifts on the first date please.

While these are 5 topics you shouldn’t bring up, there are quite a few conversation topics you should bring up on a first date, which can lead to increasing the level of attraction in the female you are with. Also, it’s not just what you say on the first date, but how you say it… as in body language. I go over these exact topics, in my book Mastering the Game. If you’re serious about becoming successful with women, I highly recommend checking it out!

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